Hip surgery and exposure

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I have talked to her about it. I have not thanked her for "speaking out" that seems like it would embarrass me further (something I admit that I secretly need)...

In that case, I think it is important to thank your wife for her comment and opinion. Take the blame and humiliation. Go for it!

Never thought of actually thanking her for speaking up and pointing out I should be embarrassed. ... I should make sure she knows I am humiliated that she is embarrassed about my lack of size.

If you're finding it to be a kink then it sounds like a conversation is in order -- I'm pretty sure you and your partner want to be on the same page to make sure nobody is hurt by a misunderstanding in this realm.

If it's something that legit bothers you though, one thing I'll say is at one point my urologist had me try a daily Cialis and while I was on it, I was surprised to find myself hanging noticeably "fuller" than before.