ENM: Small, Normal or Large Penis Preferred?

[TeenFan]

I often to use male characters who are fourteen or fifteen for a couple of reasons.
1. Boys this age are getting their first consistent issues with erection problems.
2. After the onset of puberty, and growth changes taking place rapidly, a boy with a smallish body can have an adult sized penis.

Six inches doesn't look like a whole lot on a grown man of six feet tall and weighing 200 pounds.
The same male can have that six inch penis at fourteen, when he is five feet five inches tall, and weighing 100 pounds. It will look huge
on him at that age, and when combined with how easily he gets excited...good material for ENM stories.

And any male you see with a huge one would have been quite impressive as a young teenager.

I think it is accurate that the average age a boy first can achieve a full orgasm is 13.5 years. That does make fourteen a common age for
first timers. Taking until age sixteen would be cause for some concern.

[DrWhoFanJ]

You could spurt at 20? Isn't that a bit late? I figured 13 or 14 at least.

It took a long time before I discovered what actually worked for me (and before I could be confident in having enough privacy from other family members entering my room unannounced), not helped by the fact I didn’t have my own proper phone until my 20th birthday. It was the lockdowns that finally helped resolve those other issues and allowed space for my own self-exploration.

(I even have a video of that first time as I was recording my attempts to watch later to discern what did and didn’t work, and I released more then than I can do in an entire month now.)


{Edit to add: Another key part of the delay in the person-controlled elements of the pubertal process was that I was adopted aged 6 from an extremely abusive mother and entirely-absent father. That meant I was initially learning about myself (including all medical diagnoses including autism) whilst already undergoing puberty as well. That’s why all the learning about myself and sexual enjoyment came (pun not intended) much later than it might otherwise have done: I simply wasn’t in a position to comfortably explore such things any earlier than that.}

[And yes, I do give full permission if anyone wants to use such a situation in a story at some point.]

[RaccoonBatteryStaple]

Six inches doesn't look like a whole lot on a grown man of six feet tall and weighing 200 pounds.
The same male can have that six inch penis at fourteen, when he is five feet five inches tall, and weighing 100 pounds. It will look huge
on him at that age, and when combined with how easily he gets excited...good material for ENM stories.

Six inches at age 14 would mean having a two-hander. I'm trying to imagine what that would be like.

[NickTwisp]

Working in the medical field, I can say that the average adult male erect penis is seldom more than 6 to 6.5 inches in length. An erect penis 7-8 inches would be relatively unusual.