Freesub wrote: ↑Mon May 06, 2024 1:19 pmI wanted to know your
personal experiences with your family teasing you for your nudity
This part of my response needs some background: You see, I grew up in the southern U.S.A. during the 1990s, and during those hot/humid summers, it was the most natural thing in the world to observe boys being shirtless outside during hot weather, at the pool, casually around the house, in the gym at school, etc. -- in other words, that was considered the default, natural, and logical state of affairs. Yet along comes my childhood self, whose username might as well have been
"ModestClothedBoy" 
In my boyhood and early/mid, rest assured I was
very modest -- not wanting to be shirtless, never mind buck naked, in front of either females OR males! I'd wear a shirt into the swimming pool, and as I got older, I greatly feared the possibility or prospect of things like: being on a "skins" team or having to change/shower in the locker room after gym.
Needless to say, everyone around me (quite vocally) considered this to be unnecessary and silly, or even abnormal or wrong, because in their minds, boyish immodesty was the default, so my modesty was disappointing or even unhealthy, which they frequently made a point of mentioning! Of course, this was real life, not an ENM story, so all anyone ever really did did was try to persuade me out of it -- with arguments, scolding, expressions of disapproval and disappoint, and other such things. Conversely, my own feelings were met with casual (if well intentioned) dismissal and insistences that "boys knowing what boys have," and it was something to be overcome instead of accommodated; granted, not "teasing" as such, and certainly not the worst thing in the world, but it still irked me...
As for "teasing" proper, this one time around age 12-13, I was showering with the door locked, per usual,
and after I got out and was drying off -- I saw my younger male cousin, perhaps 6/7 years old, peeking under the door at me and giggling
I mean, I'm certain he just wanted mess with me because would get a reaction and make me feel awkward...
...which it did, in fact! For what it's worth, my younger cousin himself was my
polar opposite, so brazenly immodest (even into preteen) one might mistake him for an exhibitionist -- except for the fact that he just
sincerely didn't give a shit who saw his plump torso, chubby bare butt, and diminutive boy bits bouncing about as he pranced around (
in front of both genders) in his birthday suit!
as well as how you like to incorporate it in stories, as a writer and as a reader how you like to read it
Just for clarity's sake, I might think of it in terms of five categories, roughly speaking...
- Innocent/Good-Natured: Basically those scenarios where one is casually naive about boyish modesty, benign/kind in emotional tone, often what I call "sweetly dismissive" or similar, wherein I believe my fellow author Mogg particularly excels:
“Oh, darling… is it still as small as it was when I last saw it a year ago?” she put her arm around Adrian’s shoulders and pulled him close, “My poor boy… don’t be upset, lots of boys are late bloomers like you… there, there, try not to worry…”
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Source: https://moggstories.blogspot.com/2023/0 ... about.html)
- Amused/Smart-Ass: The aforementioned memory of my cousin peeping on me that time, in fact, may be quite the illustrative example; more generally, where it's at the recipient's expense, but not too terribly malicious (arguably), at least not as much as it could be:
I kept crying. The pain and the emotions I felt were so overwhelming. She noted my crying. "What’s the matter? Do you want to me to go and get my little baby a pacifier?" | [After a spanking, by the way!]
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Source: https://malespank.net/viewStory.php?id=53232 by Felix M)
- Insensitive/Bratty: You are very unkindly taking pleasure in another's misfortune, and you know EXACTLY what you're doing:
That’s when both boys here girls giggling behind them. "Jamie, that’s disgusting!" Sixteen-year-old Samantha says, as Jamison grabs at his boxers and jeans pulling them up as quickly as he can <-snip-> "Look Jamie’s crying!" Abigail says pointing at her older brother. "I bet you’ll cry even harder when Daddy belts your bare butt!" she says hooting. | [Post-masturbation and climax...]
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Source: https://malespank.net/viewStory.php?id=49646 by Zyngaru and Brian's Sister)
- Mean/Sadistic: Self-explanatory, right?
The mortified boy clasped his hands over his genitals then, face red with shame as his friends and his loathed stepfather pointed at his endowment. Something in Simon had changed though. He wasn’t about to allow the boy to cover up his embarrassment. "Taylor! Remove your hands now!" The boy looked shocked, his eyes darting to his step dad and back to his friends. He whined then, not wanting to move... | [Size humiliation, from a fed-up step-father!]
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Source: https://malespank.net/viewStory.php?id=52302 by Arapiles)
- Punitive/Control: There may be elements of sadism and/or cruelty, but discipline and obedience are the primary motivation:
“I caught the little pervert playing with himself.” She pulled from me again and took me to the armchair. She gave me a hard smack on my bare bottom. “Stop playing with yourself, boy!” she barked. “Hands on your head!” I immediately did as she said. I stood there, naked, hands on my head, in front of the two girls. | [13yo boy narrator caught indulging in "private fun" by his babysitter!]
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Source: https://puericil.netlify.app/fna/2024/mailing_list_21 by Cassie @ F.N.A.)
- Erotic/Sexual: Heightening the emotional tone of arousal and titillation:
David removed the last item of clothing, Eton’s jock, that he wore under his briefs to help conceal his frequent erections. When David pulled the jock down, he deliberately pulled Eton’s boner down with it, causing it to spring back up and slap against his small patch of wispy pubes. His four-inch circumcised erection was now pointing upward at a forty-five-degree angle. They heard Dr. Harmon laugh as she returned just in time to witness the playfulness and bondage shared between Eton and his Dad. | [
ALSO: "It's not little!" the son indignantly protests, in response to Dad affectionately referring his son's "little love muscle" ]
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Source: https://malespank.net/viewStory.php?id=55377 by Pixote)
(In a separate reply post, I will reference an especially on-topic example from my own writing... 
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In my boyhood and early/mid, rest assured I was 
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