My Boyfriend Totally Humiliated In Front of Two Women

[Jennifer887]

Last fall, my boyfriend got home and while I knew he had to have an exam at our clinic for his rugby team’s required seasonal physical, there was an aspect to it that no one expected. He’s in league play and that requires a physical before each season which is normal, and of course we used the clinic we always use. It was no big deal. But while he was there and had his regular physical with the male doctor he always sees, the blood work came back with a report that some number was elevated, and they wanted to give him an ultrasound to examine his kidneys. No joke. And he’s 27 so he’s thinking, what the hell. But for whatever reason, they decided to give him an ultrasound to examine his kidneys. When he got back and told me about it, I was going to make a joke to him about it and ask him whether he had a vaginal ultrasound, but he was in no mood for any of my humor. He said to me that he had been completely humiliated, and in front of two women.

It had nothing to do with the actual exam (which of course was done by his actual doctor, a man) and nothing to do with the ultrasound, which he said was mostly above his waist and not at all near his lower region. It had to do with correctly gowning him and removing his gown and placing on him another gown. I think what it came down to was nothing intentionally humiliating, but instead, a complete indifference to a patient’s modesty. Kind of a cavalier attitude toward the fact that it involved thirty seconds of his being naked and the nurse not caring about it and her not caring about her nurse’s assistant being right there when it happened.

The exchange of gowns meant the nurse took off his gown so she could give him another for his ultrasound, and in doing this she forgot or wasn’t ready to help him into the new gown. The new gown was still folded. She helped him out of his gown and pretty much had an attitude of, “It’s coming off, don’t think another thing about it.” And under her arm was the folded new gown. And right next to him on the other side of him was the nurse’s assistant, as young as 20 but no more than 22. The nurse he said was probably 40. She was Asian and the assistant was a pretty blond girl we all had seen during the past year. Because she performs a lot of stuff at the clinic, including even filing and filling out of forms, she is pretty omnipresent when you visit the clinic, and for a bunch of medical and non medical reasons. Of course we had seen the nurse as well over the two years we had gone to the clinic. But until he told me what happened, I never imagined that YES, Of Course the idea of either of these women seeing him totally nude would be the most humiliating thing imaginable for him to have to live through, especially because his rugby league is known by everyone in our city, and there would be a good chance that this assistant would see him outside of the clinic’s setting. This just had to be the worst for him.

The nurse’s idea of helping him out of the gown was to tug at it and him in a way to mentally say to him, “take off your gown.” So off it came. The nurse dropped the gown on the floor, and he stood there in nothing but his birthday suit, and his two inch penis hung in its small manner, not even making any kind of hook shape, but nearly a button shape to it and he and the nurse and the nurse’s assistant all looking straight down at it. He said he stood there, frozen in horror. They all got an eyeful of his naked body and his penis and balls – every inch of him, totally nude. Then afterward there was an uncomfortable 15 seconds of the nurse opening the new gown as he stood in front of them, stark naked and small hung. The assistant did something that was sort of kind, but in fact ended up backfiring on his already destroyed male ego. She turned away from him and walked a few steps away, but when she turned back at the two of them, he had turned his body to put on the new gown and now the assistant got a side view of his penis, which is of course even more humiliating than the straight down view of his little dick. Everything went from worse to worse.

After he told me what had happened, I made some kind of showing of empathy toward his circumstance, but then I went into the next room and burst out laughing at how he had been completely humiliated, and how he would have to eventually see this girl at the clinic in the future.