What brought you here? How long have you had this kink? Have you always, or did you have an experience?

[RaccoonBatteryStaple]

I was kinda bullied in school. Nothing ever too serious but kids judged me very harshly. I say that simply now but as kid everything was magnified by like 100 where any awkward or embarrassing moment felt devastating. Maybe its like s&m stuff where this is a way of rewriting those situations and anxieties to take control of them

This.

And if not to take control of them, at least explore them.