My fiance has an embarrassment fetish - how can I support it without one of us getting arrested?

[CanterburyScales]

My fiance (26m) wants me to embarrass him, a lot like the stories on this forum. As an example he wants me to steal his swimsuit at the beach and run off with it, forcing him to run out of the water naked in front of everyone. We're both worried though that we'll get into actual legal trouble for this. Does anyone have real life experience with acting out these fetishes?

[Executionus]

It is much more difficult to get away with male public nudity than it is female, so your options are going to be extremely limited. It's just plain not going to be a good idea to expose him to strangers under any circumstances, especially any location were under-18s might be located. They put guys on the sex offender list for just peeing outside these days.

My advise is to create situations where he can be embarrassed in front of your female friends, such as tying him naked to the bed and inviting the girls over to see him. You could even add some shock element to that by not telling him that you were doing it until the girls walked in on him.

There is also the possibility of using outdoor nudity in safe locations where he's unlikely to get caught, such as a nature trail.

[Drax6119]

You can rig a bet so he loses, and his forfeit is to be a naked server at an all-girls party you’re going to throw. Bonus will be telling the girls to please touch, ensuring he’s hard the whole time.

[RaccoonBatteryStaple]

This was an older post but I thought others might still find a reply interesting. At any rate, I see two ways this can go.

One is along the lines that other respondents have suggested -- create a situation you have a lot of control over. Obviously this assumes you have the right kind of friends, but you get the idea...

• Have one (or more) friends come over while he's in the shower so he walks out to an unexpected audience.
• Have a party in the garage or living room and encourage one of his friends to pants him after a few drinks.

The would be to do some small-scale things that would be fairly low-stakes in terms of being able to abandon/cover quickly or else pass off the behavior as merely idiosyncratic.

• Have him strip naked in the back of your car at night and drive him around for a while. Maybe have a blanket on the floorboard.
• If he has reason to be in a locker room and there aren't kids around, tell him when he changes he has to find the most exposed spot in the room to do it, and take his time making sure to stand back up straight after taking off each item of clothing. If there's a communal shower, use it.
• Tell him the next time he goes to a urinal -- especially one with skimpy dividers -- he has to pull his pants and underwear down to his thighs like a little kid instead of using his fly.

[Enm26]

I have to say I love the idea of risk and the idea of being caught naked. I also would love to be in situations where there is a thrill/risk even if not that high. My wife has helped me with this a few times, but I have been the one coming up with the ideas.

A few things we have done:
1. Stop sign stripping game at night. Every time my wife stops at a stop sign through a neighborhood of her choosing, I have to strip off an article of clothing. After I'm fully naked, next stop sign means handcuffs go on my hands behind my back. We have done this after dark but early enough where people may still be outside.
2. On vacation, we were at a hotel where people would come in and outside from the pool in swimsuits or towels. After swimming, I went to the bathroom nearby to take off my swim trunks then wore a towel to cover my nudity. My wife got to hold the backpack with my swim trunks as we went through the lobby and up the elevator with a full elevator and others around us. I only had the towel and was barefoot.
3. My wife has taken me through a drive through where she had me pretend to be asleep under a blanket, while I was naked and handcuffed underneath. After the drive through, she took the blanket back off.

These were all really fun, but I always crave new experiences where I can be naked or hidden naked in public with my wife in charge of my nudity! If anyone has ideas, let me know!

[RaccoonBatteryStaple]

1. Stop sign stripping game at night. Every time my wife stops at a stop sign through a neighborhood of her choosing, I have to strip off an article of clothing. After I'm fully naked, next stop sign means handcuffs go on my hands behind my back. We have done this after dark but early enough where people may still be outside.

Is this while riding in the car?

These were all really fun, but I always crave new experiences where I can be naked or hidden naked in public with my wife in charge of my nudity! If anyone has ideas, let me know!

From what you've described, I think your wife needs to buy you a kilt so you can walk around a park or mall with nothing underneath. That also gives her the freedom to lift it up as she sees fit. And when someone asks if you're "regimental" she can tell them to lift it up themselves and find out!